Let’s be real—our phones are practically glued to our hands. We check them first thing in the morning, scroll through them while watching TV, and somehow end up watching dog videos when we only meant to check the time. But when it comes to your wedding day, do you really want to see a bunch of screens instead of the faces of the people you love most?
That’s why so many couples are choosing to have an unplugged wedding in a more historic setting—at least for the important moments. And before you start stressing about how to tell Aunt Karen she can’t take photos, hear us out. There are some really good reasons to ask your guests to put their phones away and "just be present" in the moment. Bring on the cameras during the reception!!
Your Photos Will Look So Much Better
You hired a professional photographer for a reason! Nothing ruins a perfect shot faster than a guest stepping into the aisle with their phone in hand, completely blocking the view. (And yes, it happens **all the time**.) Let your photographer do their thing so you end up with gorgeous, high-quality photos—without a sea of screens in the background.
You’ll Actually See Your Guests’ Faces
Imagine walking down the aisle and seeing nothing but a row of glowing phone screens instead of the faces of your loved ones. Not exactly the emotional moment you pictured, right? Now, imagine locking eyes with your best friends, your parents, your partner—**all fully there, soaking it in with you.** That’s what makes an unplugged ceremony so special.
No Accidental Livestreams or Unflattering Sneak Peeks
One of the biggest reasons couples go unplugged? **Control over what gets shared and when.** No one wants a blurry, awkward mid-chew photo appearing on social media before the night is even over. Keep the magic alive and let your professional photos be the first ones everyone sees.
Your Guests Will Actually Experience the Moment
Ever been to a concert where everyone is watching through their phone screens? Weddings can feel the same way. You want your guests laughing, crying, and celebrating with you—not distracted by trying to capture the “perfect” shot.
How to Make It Happen (Without Sounding Rude)
You don’t have to ban phones all night, but here are some ways to encourage guests to unplug when it matters most:
Put up a fun sign at the entrance (“We want to see your smiles, not your screens!”)
Have your officiant make a quick announcement before the ceremony starts.
Mention it in your invitations or wedding website so guests know in advance.
Give guests a designated “photo time” during the reception so they can still capture memories.
At Speakeasy On State, we’ve seen how much more connected and meaningful unplugged weddings can feel. The moments are richer, the emotions are deeper, and couples actually get to see their guests’ faces instead of a row of phones. Trust us, it’s worth it.
Would you go unplugged for your big day? Let us know in the comments! And if you’re still searching for the perfect venue, come take a tour of Speakeasy On State—we’d love to show you around!
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