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Ghosting Isn’t Just for Dating: Why Venues Deserve a Break-Up Text Too! Don't ghost your wedding venue!

Picture this: you inquire about a fabulous event venue (maybe one with a speakeasy vibe and a killer bar package wink wink), and the team responds with all the details, pricing, and even holds a date for you. Exciting, right? But then—radio silence. Weeks pass. Is it us? Is it you? Did you run away to elope in Vegas? We may never know. Don't ghost your wedding venue!


Ballroom dance floor ready for wedding guests

Look, we get it. Choosing a venue is like picking a partner for the most important day of your life. You want "the one" that makes you swoon, and sometimes that means checking out a few options before settling down. But here’s the thing: when you decide to swipe left on us, we really appreciate knowing.


Why Should You Break Up With Us (Politely)?

  • We Hold Dates Just for You

    When you show interest in a date, we tentatively hold it for you. That means we’re basically saving a seat at the cool kids' table. But if we don’t hear from you, we can’t offer that date to other couples who are ready to say "I do" to us. And yes, unclaimed dates mean we lose revenue—which means fewer fancy cocktail experiments and even fewer spontaneous dance breaks.

  • No Hard Feelings (Promise)

    We know we’re not everyone’s cup of craft cocktail. If you find a venue that speaks to your soul, we genuinely wish you nothing but the best. But a quick “Hey, we found another spot” helps us keep our calendars (and our emotions) in check. It’s not you, it’s us—and we’ll bounce back.

  • You’ll Make Someone Else’s Day

    By freeing up a date, you give another couple the chance to snag their dream venue. It’s like passing on the last slice of wedding cake—selfless and deeply appreciated.


How to Let Us Down Easy

It doesn’t need to be a grand gesture or a teary goodbye. A simple email or text does the trick:

“Hey [Venue], thanks so much for all the info and help! We’ve decided to go with another location, but we appreciate your time.”

Boom. Done. No awkwardness. No ghosting. We’ll still raise a glass to your happiness.


TL;DR: Break Up with Us, We Can Handle It

We love hearing from you, even if the answer is no. So if you decide to go another direction, just let us know. It keeps our calendars happy, our business thriving, and our bartenders busy crafting magical experiences for other couples.

And who knows? Maybe one day down the road, you’ll be back for an epic anniversary party. Our doors (and our hearts) will always be open.



Still Searching for "The One"? Let’s Go on a Date!

If you haven’t quite found the perfect venue, why not schedule a tour with us? We promise great vibes, stunning spaces, and maybe even a sneak peek at our NEW interactive Photobooth...think seating charts, video guest book, and welcome signs!! No pressure—just a fun little date to see if we’re your perfect match.


Click Here and let’s setup our first date (venue tour)!



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